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Every parent has had the 2am moment: a hot forehead, a strange cough, a rash that was not there at bedtime. The question is not whether you are overreacting. The question is whether this needs help now.
This guide is a triage tool, not a diagnosis. It covers the signs that should never wait, the ones that need a call, and the ones that can usually wait for the GP. If you are worried and cannot settle, call healthdirect on 1800 022 222. Trust your gut.
Call 000 now#
Call 000 or go to the nearest emergency department if your child:
- is struggling to breathe, grunting, sucking in under the ribs, or has blue or grey lips
- is hard to wake, unusually floppy, or unresponsive
- has a seizure that lasts more than five minutes, or has repeated seizures
- has a rash that does not fade when you press a glass against it
- is under three months old and has a temperature of 38°C or higher
- is severely dehydrated — no wet nappies, no tears, sunken eyes, a sunken soft spot, or a dry mouth
- has a severe head injury, is vomiting repeatedly, or is becoming drowsy after a fall
- has swallowed poison or a button battery
- has severe abdominal pain, a rigid tummy, or green (bilious) vomiting
- has sudden swelling of the face, lips or throat, or trouble breathing after eating or a sting
For poisoning advice, call the Poisons Information Centre on 13 11 26. For a button battery, go straight to an emergency department.
Fever: age changes everything#
A fever is generally a temperature of 38°C or higher. How your child looks and behaves matters, but age is the first filter.
| Age | What to do |
|---|---|
| Under 3 months | 38°C or higher: go to the nearest emergency department immediately |
| 3–6 months | 38°C or higher: see a doctor promptly, same day |
| Over 6 months | Assess breathing, hydration, alertness and pain; see a GP if worried or the fever lasts more than a few days |
| Any age | Fever with breathing trouble, a non-blanching rash, a seizure, severe dehydration or unusual drowsiness: call 000 |
A high temperature alone is not the whole story. A child with a 39°C fever who is drinking and playing is different from a child with 38.2°C who is listless and breathing hard.
Breathing: the signs that matter#
Babies are obligate nose breathers and can look dramatic with a cold. The signs that matter are:
- fast or laboured breathing
- grunting at the end of each breath
- sucking in under the ribs or at the base of the neck
- nostril flaring
- a pause in breathing (apnoea)
- blue or grey lips, tongue or face
- inability to feed, speak or cry because they are working so hard to breathe
If you see any of these, call 000.
Hydration: the nappy test#
Dehydration in a small child can happen quickly, especially with vomiting, diarrhoea or fever.
Signs include:
- fewer wet nappies, or dark, strong-smelling urine
- no tears when crying
- a dry mouth or tongue
- sunken eyes
- a sunken soft spot in a baby
- unusual sleepiness or irritability
- skin that stays “tented” when pinched (a late sign)
Offer small, frequent feeds or oral rehydration fluid if your GP or pharmacist has advised it. Do not force large amounts. If your child cannot keep fluids down or is showing dehydration signs, seek medical advice.
Rashes: the glass test#
Most childhood rashes are not dangerous. The one to know is a rash that does not fade when you press a clear glass against it. That can be a sign of meningococcal disease or another serious infection.
If the rash does not blanch, call 000. Do not wait for other symptoms.
Other rash features that need prompt review:
- a rash with fever and a very unwell child
- blisters or peeling skin
- a rash that spreads rapidly
- a rash with swelling of the face or lips
- a rash that is painful, hot or oozing
Head injuries#
Children bump their heads constantly. Most bumps are minor. Seek urgent care if your child:
- loses consciousness, even briefly
- is drowsy, confused or difficult to wake
- vomits repeatedly
- has a seizure
- has clear fluid or blood from the nose or ear
- has a large bruise or swelling, especially in a baby
- has a headache that is getting worse
- has weakness, numbness, slurred speech or problems walking
For a baby under 12 months, a fall from a height or a suspected head injury should be checked by a doctor.
Tummy pain#
Most tummy pain is wind, constipation or a passing virus. Seek urgent help if:
- the pain is severe and constant
- your child is drawing their knees up and screaming
- the tummy is rigid or very tender
- there is green or bloodstained vomit
- there is blood in the stool
- your child is pale, sweaty or unusually sleepy
- a boy has sudden pain in the groin or testicle
What to say when you call#
Have these ready:
- your child's age and weight
- the temperature and how you measured it
- how long they have been unwell
- what they are drinking and how many wet nappies
- any medicines given, including the dose and time
- any rash, breathing changes or unusual behaviour
- your address and the nearest cross street if calling 000
What to keep at home#
- a digital thermometer
- children's paracetamol or ibuprofen, appropriate for their age, with a dosing syringe
- oral rehydration fluid if your GP or pharmacist recommends it
- a phone with healthdirect and Poisons Information saved
- a simple first aid kit
- an up-to-date immunisation record
Do not give aspirin to children under 16. Do not use leftover antibiotics or someone else's prescription.
If the illness involves a rash, vomiting or breathing difficulty after food, see our baby food allergy guide.
The bottom line#
Most childhood illnesses are manageable at home. The skill is knowing which ones are not. Age, breathing, hydration, alertness and rash are the big five. If your child is under three months with a fever, call 000. If something feels seriously wrong, get help. You will never be criticised for checking.
Frequently asked
What temperature is a fever in a child?
A temperature of 38°C or higher is generally considered a fever. How your child looks and behaves matters more than the number for older children, but age matters enormously: any fever in a baby under three months is an emergency.
Should I give paracetamol or ibuprofen?
Only give medicine that is appropriate for your child's age and weight, and follow the label or your doctor's advice. Do not give aspirin to children under 16 because of the risk of Reye syndrome. Do not alternate paracetamol and ibuprofen unless a doctor or pharmacist has advised it. Medicine reduces discomfort; it does not treat the underlying infection.
What if my child has a febrile seizure?
Febrile seizures are frightening but usually brief. Put your child on their side on the floor, clear the area of hard objects, do not restrain them and do not put anything in their mouth. Call 000 if the seizure lasts more than five minutes, your child has trouble breathing, it is their first seizure, or another seizure follows quickly.
When can I wait until morning?
If your child is drinking, responsive, breathing comfortably, has wet nappies and no emergency signs, it may be reasonable to monitor and see your GP in the morning. If you are unsure, call healthdirect. Do not wait if your child is getting worse, is very sleepy, is breathing hard, or has a rash that does not fade.
References
Sources and further reading
We use primary Australian guidance first. These links open in a new tab.
- Fever in childrenhealthdirect
- Symptom checkerhealthdirect
- Fever in childrenThe Royal Children's Hospital Melbourne
- Head injurieshealthdirect
- Poisoninghealthdirect
How this guide was made
Drafted with AI assistance and edited against the public sources above. This is general information for Australian families, not personal medical, legal or financial advice. It has not been medically reviewed.
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